Moms take note: Here are WONDERFUL Suggestions!!

8 Sep

One of my favorite blogs, Gendermom (the author and commentator of the podcast, “How to be a Girl”), has a new post that offers excellent recommendations for you moms with school age trans-children. As she sent her MTF daughter off to begin third grade, the blog’s writer shares the letter she has composed to her daughter’s new teacher. As a retired educator myself, I can say that this letter will be most likely be met with gratitude! Teachers (especially in the elementary grades) seriously consider their students’ self esteems and personal needs!

While Gendermom is positive in tone, she is, at the same time, open about the concern her daughter has for remaining “stealth”(not disclosing she is transgender unless she personally so chooses to disclose). This proactive mom’s anticipation of what the teacher should be aware of, seeks the teacher’s support so that potentially awful interactions can be avoided. Let’s be honest, we cannot prevent everything bad from reaching our children, but we can stem the tide by laying the foundation for understanding-especially in our children’s schools!

As we watch this first generation ever have some of its children switch their gender identification with the support of the significant adults in their lives, we can ALL learn how to support and celebrate our transgender youth!


5 Responses to “Moms take note: Here are WONDERFUL Suggestions!!”

  1. theterminaltraveler September 12, 2016 at 2:54 pm #

    Oh how I wish that Alabama were more accepting.

    • transmom September 13, 2016 at 4:50 am #

      I soooooo agree! But it start with us…keep working it!!

      • theterminaltraveler September 13, 2016 at 10:34 am #

        Doing our best to do so without being hurt. Literally

      • transmom September 14, 2016 at 3:21 am #

        awwww- this world…..I know that it is better than it was in terms of inclusion and tolerance, but we have sooooo very far to go!!

      • theterminaltraveler September 14, 2016 at 10:31 am #

        So true!

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